Jordyn, the wife of Dave Grohl, was “shocked” to learn about their secret baby—according to insider sources

Jordyn, the wife of Dave Grohl, was “shocked” to learn about their secret baby—according to insider sources

When it comes to Blum, “her friends are like family, and they rallied around her,” a source tells People.

The fact that Jordyn Blum, a rock star, just gave birth to a kid with another woman has left Dave Grohl and her uncertain about their future together.

The 55-year-old frontman of Foo Fighters made the startling admission on Tuesday, September 10, on Instagram, saying followers he is trying “everything I can to regain” Blum and their kids’ trust. (The girls Violet, 18, Harper, 15, and Ophelia, 10 are the parents of Graul and Blum.)

The 48-year-old interior designer has “for a while” been aware of Grohl’s pregnancy announcement, according to a person close to Blum.

“When she learned about the infant, she was taken aback. Another Blum friend recalls, “Her friends are like family, and they came together for her.”

Over time, “Their marriage has been hampered by Dave’s flirtatious conduct. Jordyn has been harmed by it,” the Blum source continues.

The announcement of Grohl’s pregnancy stunned some of his fans, but not everyone in the couple’s social circle was taken aback.

A person close to the couple said, “We keep reading over and over again how heartbroken everyone is because Dave was supposed to be the ‘good guy,’ the rockstar that didn’t have to do those rockstar things.” “And people are crazy about the guy, but there is a rockstar side.”

According to the source, Grohl and Blum, who have been married since 2003, also frequently “felt like an opposites attract type of [relationship].”

A representative for Grohl declined to comment, and Blum has not answered PEOPLE’s requests for information.

Grohl and Blum are both putting their children first despite the recent turmoil in their marriage. In his statement from September 10, Grohl stated, “I love my wife and my children, and I am doing everything I can to earn their forgiveness and regain their trust.” “We’re grateful for your consideration toward all the children involved, as we move forward together.”

The Blum insider claims, “She’s a great mom and very dedicated to their daughters.”

August will celebrate Grohl and Blum’s 21st wedding anniversary. In July, they went Wimbledon in London, where Duran Duran guitarist Simon Le Bon sat next to them, laughing and conversing.